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绳艺束缚论道——气氛

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)在绳艺束缚关系之中,”支配与服从”的关系扮演著一个绝对重要的角色。让我们来看一下:当你和一个m-girl(爱受虐女子)交往时,你会感到和一般女子交往时的截然不同。举一个例吧,一个m-girl会诚心诚意地对你说:”如果我违背了您的命令,请您惩罚我.这是基于对你心理上的信赖。对于她而言,接受并服从命令正是她的快乐。而且主人的命令也不会超出她的忍受极限,因为主人了解她的极限。(尽管主人偶尔可能会命令她一些她不喜欢的事情,但基本上主人的 命令都是她喜欢和无害的)如果主人不掌握这种发号施令的气氛,他就无法继续下去。因此主人不能只是发布些女方不喜欢的命令。另外这种主从关系应当渗入到日常的生活之中。 两者的关系在平时也应当象这样。甚至当俩人睡觉时,主人规定她不能够睡在床上--因为她是奴隶,他命令她睡在床底下。但是主人会关照她的需要,会替她盖上被子以免著凉。”主从”关系不是简单的命令和服从,而是一种相濡以沫般的甜美气氛。当然,在进行绳艺束缚的时候,这种主从关系和一般生活中的礼节是不会一样的,当绳艺束缚结束时,她会跪在主人脚下,感谢主人的调教训练。这就是区别。
女子自愿选择了绝对的服从,而主人享受这种被服从的快乐。也许在Femdon (女人控制男人)的关系中,也同样是这一样的气氛和感觉,只不过颠倒了一下彼此角色。

在绳艺束缚中,”服从命令”个要素和绳艺束缚本身一样的使她感到兴奋。甚至在蜡烛油滴在她身上的时候,她的兴奋亦非源自热蜡,而是因为她想到了主人命令她必需忍耐,是她的”忍受感”使真正兴奋。这在后庭刑罚的时候也是类似的。单纯的燥热痛楚之所以会成为快感,正是由于这种”自身意志想拒绝而又不得不接受的感觉”热蜡在女人精神上不得不服从忍受的时候,每一滴热蜡落下,都会给她带来一次快感。

尽管男人视女人在这时的表现为享受,但他也是喜欢这种服从的感觉的,这是一种只可意会,无法言传的感觉。我知道有很多绳艺束缚中作为主人男性,也都有受虐倾向,甚至有些偶尔与受虐方轮换角色,可称为是施虐受虐的混合体。
在主从之间有一种精神上的联络方式,正是这种联络方式的存在,绳艺束缚才能够顺利进行。 这种主从间的联络方式,就象孩子和母亲间的联络方式无异,奴隶不能失去主人,主人也 不可遗弃奴隶。绳艺束缚中的这种气氛就是,母亲和孩子一般的精神肉体的相互依赖, 再混合进性的欲望。

For bondage, domination and obedience play an important role for s/m relationship.Let’s consider this here. When I came to associate with an m-girl, I found there is a clear vertical relationship with a m-girl compared with equal friendship with a more ordinary girl. For example, a m-girl says on purpose ” if I don’t obey your order, punish me”. This becomes the psychological dependence to me. It is her joy to be ordered and to follow the orders.

The orders which director gives never goes beyond the reach of what she can, for he knows well what she can carry out. Although he may occasionally order to carry out what she may dislike, he demands her to do her favorite or harmless acts fundamentally. If the director dislike the atmosphere of ordering, he can not continue to order. And he can’t give only the disagreeable orders to the partner. And this goes into a normal life as well as a play.

The relationship between the two becomes like this all the time. Even when the two go to sleep on a bed, he tells her that she is a slave and she cannot sleep on bed. He order her to sleep under the bed. But he pays attention to her and if required, he puts the coverings onto her so that she may not feel cold. The relation of such domination and obedience is not that of mere
orders and obedience, but a sweet mental scent is drifting there.

Of course, the domination-obedience relation is separated from equal relation of the ordinary life with the ceremony of greeting before going into a play, and that of gratitude at the end of the play. She begs s/m training from the master, and says words of gratitude sitting with her head on the ground. This makes the separation.
The girl has chosen obedience by her own will, and the master has accepted the obedience as a comfortable thing. Probably when a girl rules over a man, the same atmosphere and comfort will be there only the situation being reversed.
In the play the element of accepting the command of the master is exciting to her as well as the play itself. Even when a drop wax of a candle is dropped over her, she is excited not because the wax is hot but because she thinks she must endure it by her master’s order. The figure of herself who is bearing is exciting to her. This applies in the case of anal torture similarly. The
stimulus of mere heat or pain which should be avoided can become one of excitement because the stimulus given to the body is judged by how it is received. The heat of wax requires mental obedience of the girl who has to bear it, and every falling drop brings her a pleasant sensation.

Although a male accepts the action of this girl as a comfortable thing, he has the same tendency in fact, and he understands the feeling of obedience.Although it understands, it is not knowledge but it is sensuous. I have met several professional and the semiprofessional bondage giver so far. And I have found them very gentle unexpectedly. Can’t they do the suitable play with the m-girls probably because they have m-tendency inside? They were the side of binding and being bound at the same time.
Of course, there is a mental connection between the governing and obeying sides. Just because there is a connection, the above-mentioned play is possible.There, the depending relationship which fulfills the heart of the two sides exists through domination and obedience. Just like a child who depends on her or his mother, so S can’t live without M and M can’t live without S.
The atmosphere of s/m is the mental and physical depending relationship between mother and child mingled with sexual desire.

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